Engaging Kids in Travel Planning: Turning Your Family Trip into a Team Adventure
Planning a family trip can feel like juggling a dozen things at once—choosing a destination, mapping out activities, booking accommodations, and making sure everyone has a great time. But here’s a secret: getting your kids involved in the process doesn’t just make your life easier, it makes the whole experience richer and more meaningful for them.When kids help plan a trip, they become more invested in the journey. They feel like active participants rather than just along for the ride. Plus, involving them teaches valuable life skills—decision-making, problem-solving, budgeting, and even teamwork. The best part? It turns the trip into something they’ll truly remember, because they helped create it.Here’s how you can make travel planning a collaborative family adventure.1. Let Kids Help Choose the DestinationEver noticed how kids get way more excited about something when they feel like it was their idea? That applies to travel, too. Instead of just announcing, “We’re going to Greece this summer!” why not make it a conversation?A great way to do this is by giving them a few options. Maybe you’re deciding between Costa Rica, Portugal, and Japan—let your kids research a bit and vote on where they’d like to go. Depending on their age, they can look up pictures, watch videos, or read fun facts about each place. If you have older kids, challenge them to present a short “pitch” on why their choice should win.Not only does this build anticipation, but it also makes them feel like their opinion matters. And when kids feel like they’ve had a say, they’re much more likely to be engaged during the trip itself.Tip: If your travel plans are already set, you can still make kids feel included by letting them help decide on smaller details—like which city to visit first or whether to spend a day at the beach or hiking in the mountains.2. Get Them Involved in Itinerary PlanningOnce you’ve settled on a destination, the real fun begins—figuring out what to do when you get there! Instead of parents deciding everything, give kids the chance to add their own ideas to the itinerary.Ask them what excites them about the destination. Are they curious about wildlife? Do they love castles, amusement parks, or boat rides? If you’re visiting Italy, they might want to make sure there’s a gelato stop every day. If you’re heading to Japan, they might be eager to visit a robot café.For older kids, consider giving them control over planning a whole day. Let them research attractions, restaurants, and even directions. It’s a great way to develop their planning skills—and they’ll love being the “family tour guide” for a day.Tip: Use travel books, YouTube videos, or even Google Maps street view to explore potential activities before you go. This makes it easier for kids to visualize what they’ll experience.3. Assign Age-Appropriate Travel ResponsibilitiesKids love having a job to do—it makes them feel important and involved. Giving them age-appropriate responsibilities before and during the trip helps them develop skills and keeps them engaged.Here are a few ways kids can contribute:Young kids (3-6 years old): Let them pack their own small backpack with favorite toys, books, or snacks. Give them simple choices like, “Would you like to bring the red water bottle or the blue one?”Elementary-aged kids (7-12 years old): Have them help with simple trip planning tasks like making a packing checklist, choosing a few activities, or reading a map to find your hotel.Teens: Put them in charge of a bigger task—navigating public transport, keeping track of the budget for souvenirs, or even booking an activity online.This not only teaches responsibility but also keeps them engaged in the process rather than just following along.4. Turn Travel Planning into a Learning ExperienceA trip isn’t just about going somewhere new—it’s about understanding it. You can make travel more meaningful by helping kids learn about the history, culture, and language of your destination before you even leave home.Read books or watch movies set in the destination.Try cooking a meal from that country as a family.Learn a few basic words in the local language together.For example, if you’re heading to France, let your kids practice ordering croissants in French. If you’re visiting Peru, challenge them to find Machu Picchu on a map and learn a few facts about the Inca civilization. When they recognize these things on the trip, it creates an instant connection and makes the experience feel even more special.Tip: If your kids love stories, find a book or folktale from the country you’re visiting and read it together before you go. It’s a great way to make cultural connections.5. Create a Family Travel Vision BoardIf your family loves getting creative, a travel vision board is a great way to build excitement and keep everyone involved in the planning process.Grab a big piece of paper or a digital board (like Pinterest or Canva) and start adding:Pictures of landmarks you want to visitFoods you want to tryActivities you want to doFun facts about the destinationThis makes the trip feel real before it even starts. Plus, it gives everyone a chance to contribute their ideas and dreams.Tip: If your kids like to journal, encourage them to keep a travel journal where they can write or draw their expectations before the trip and then compare them to what they actually experience.Final Thoughts: Making Travel a Family EffortEngaging kids in travel planning isn’t just about getting their input—it’s about teaching them valuable life skills, fostering curiosity, and making sure everyone in the family feels like an active part of the journey.When kids have a say in where they’re going, what they’re doing, and even how they’re getting there, they become more enthusiastic, responsible, and invested in the experience. And as a bonus? It often leads to smoother, more enjoyable trips for everyone.So the next time you start planning an adventure, invite your kids to the table. You might be surprised at the ideas they come up with—and how much more meaningful your travels become.How do you involve your kids in travel planning? Share your tips and experiences in the comments—we’d love to hear them!
Lisa Dosooye
Mar 06, 2025
